5 Steps To Be That Girl
The moment you walk into any room, who doesn’t want to be seen as that girl? She’s confident, feminine, radiating from the inside out, and there’s just something about her that feels extra special & everybody knows it. Lucky for you, you’re already her, but sometimes it takes a few little steps to fully bring her out!
Silence your imposter syndrome & start expecting the best
I know when good things happen for us it is so easy to feel as though we are not ready or worthy for it yet, but people can literally sense this energy off of you. When you start expecting the best and no longer settle for anything below your standards, you’ll begin to notice that better things and opportunities will start flooding towards you. If you don’t believe in yourself and your abilities, how will anyone else? Fake it til you make it baby.
Smile and maintain good eye contact
This is another super important factor of being that girl. Especially if you tend to have a resting bitch face, smiling will make you look 1000x more feminine and approachable. Also, the ability to maintain good eye contact (which I know is difficult for a lot of people) will make you seem more confident and engaged with the person you are speaking with. It may feel awkward at first if you’re not used to doing it, but keep trying and it will eventually just become a habit.
Have a signature scent
Having a signature scent is such a great touch because it is not only sets the vibe for when people first come into contact with you, but it also is something people can remember you by. Also, having a signature scent is such an it girl move in general.
Have hobbies
Having hobbies instantly makes you a more interesting and attractive person. While not only will you have something to speak on and potentially connect with others about, who may have the same interests, it is just extremely alluring when someone has something that they are truly passionate about.
Don’t let people peer pressure you
Although it’s always important to be a kind person, do not be afraid to tell people no. You should always know what you stand for and what you’re comfortable with, so if your boundaries are ever being crossed, you’re able to be secure enough in yourself to shut it down. Especially if people know from the jump that they can’t walk all over you, they won’t even bother trying to work their tactics on you in the future.